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Become each others best lovers, just the way you are.

Let us take you on an amazing journey on the art of passionate love.

People who have magnificent sex don’t just show up and put their bodies in the bed—e.g., good sex. They deliberately cultivate a context that’s “just safe enough” to dare the leaps of faith they take into the wild places in their souls. That’s magnificent sex. And out-of-the-blue desire has almost nothing to do with it. When people who have magnificent sex want sex, they don’t just want the sex we see performed in the mainstream media or porn. They want to know themselves and their partners more fully and they want to be seen and known more fully felt more deeply held more closely. This is what I call “magnificent desire

 

(Nagoski, E. (2015). Come as you are: The surprising new science that will transform your sex life.)

Watch this video to see how this workshop will benefit your relationship.

You are normal – just the way you are. We will prove it from science

“whatever you’re experiencing in your sexuality—whether it’s challenges with arousal, desire, orgasm, pain, no sexual sensations, whatever—is the result of your sexual response mechanism functioning appropriately… in an inappropriate world. You are normal; it is the world around you that’s broken.”

(Nagoski, E. (2015). Come as you are: The surprising new science that will transform your sex life.)

Workshop for Couples
Learn the art to live with joy, pleasure, and exceptional sex in your relationship.
Anita and I are very excited to announce a brand new workshop. It is about sex. How to move your sexual life from nonexistent or mediocre to extraordinary.

Sex is fun. It is a gift. Unfortunately, it became for many couples a stressor or one of the many things they just let go of to avoid tension. That is sad because with that you gave up a lot of life energy in the form of joy and pleasure.

This three-day workshop can help you as a couple to rekindle the sexual flame again in your relationship.

The world these days became a very serious place. And yes, in parts of life we need to be very respectful and serious. But there is no reason why we need to give up on our joy. Sex and your permission for joy are directly related. When you restore or enhance your sexual life, you also take back your permission for joy.

In this workshop, you will learn how your brain and your body need to work together to experience the sensation of pleasure. Without this knowledge, it becomes difficult to feel your sexual pulse or it becomes a boring routine.

You will also learn how to become an intimate team as a couple. Sex at its best is a team sport. You can go solo, but it is so much more intimate, loving, energy, fun, and discovery being sexual as a couple. If you try to be sexual in disconnection, sex just becomes another item in your power struggle.

And did you know, your sexuality is unique? Some of us suffer from our sexual life because we try to fit in to “the norm” how we suppose to be. Discover your own and your partner’s unique sexuality. You will be amazed at what you will discover. There is so much to know and to enjoy.

And don’t worry, doing a sex workshop is not an orgy. We will talk a lot about sex, but all sex (and we hope you will have a lot of it) will be in the privacy of your own room. We also know that it can be a very sensitive topic, even sometimes a painful one, but we will take you on an exciting and safe journey, discovering an amazing sex life as a couple.

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Aroused by Life Couples Intensives

Aroused by Life couples Intensive is also available. One couple only for three days (9 am-5 pm) at a venue of your choice. learn the art of passion, joy, and pleasure through connection.

R35 000 per couple, excluding accommodation and meals.

You can also book a free online 20 min session with Kobus and Anita to discuss if this process is for you.

Contact Elmarie here to enquire or book an intensive, or phone 081 559 9130.

Dates
15-17 November 2024
Price
R10 000 per couple.
Venue
Price R10 000 per couple.

Venue:La Montagne, Pretoria.

We strongly suggest booking accommodation at a hotel or guesthouse. Spoil yourself – you want to apply the skills in a romantic context ☺

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 An amazing experience, researched information, hot techniques – you will have a sex life that you dreamt of!

What you will learn

  • How to feel and connect with your sexual pulse
  • Know your body
  • Know your partners body
  • Know your brain and sex
  • How to create the ultimate context for sex.
  • Consciousness and presence.
  • The dance of male and female energy
  • The dance between sexuality, creativity and spirituality.
  • Sex as life energy, joy and pleasure.
  • Technical suggestions for optimal orgasms.

You will grow your capacity for

  • Play
  • Fun
  • Pleasure
  • Intimacy
  • Full Aliveness

Who can attend this workshop?
Couples in an intimate relationship who

  • Enjoy sex and want to know more about the art of sex.
  • Have somewhere along life lost their sexual life and want to get it back.
  • One or both of you has lost your sexual desire and dont feel aroused anymore and you want to re connect with your sexuality again.
  • Experience sex as a routine and want to experience passionate sex again.

Learn the art to live with joy, pleasure, and exceptional sex in your relationship.

How does the workshop work?
It is for two nights and three days.

Anita and I will give lectures in group settings.

You will complete questionnaires

You will practice some skills in the group like presence, connection, conscious touch (nonsexual)

Anita will spend an afternoon just with the woman

Kobus will spend an afternoon just with the men.

And hopefully, you will have amazing sex each night (and maybe the rest of your life) with your new knowledge, skills, and connection.

3 easy steps to getting the sex you want.

We ache to touch intimately what is real, to find the marriage of meaning and matter in our lives and in the world.

We ache to feel and to express the fire of being fully alive.

When we cultivate and refuse to separate those essential expressions of a human soul – our spirituality, sexuality, and creativity –  we feel the fire of our being,

we find that place where the soul and the sensuous met,

we unfold.

What We Ache For: Creativity and the Unfolding of Your Soul, Book by Oriah mountain dreamer

Presenters: Kobus & Anita van der Merwe

Presenters Kobus and Anita van der Merwe

David Deidra, Dear Lover:

’’Men are terrified of a woman’s
depth of love and energy
that moves as a woman’s sexuality and emotions.
And, at the same time, men want nothing more
in this life than to merge completely
with a woman’s devotional
love and wild energy.
Only as a man outgrows his fear
can he handle a woman’s tremendous
love-energy without running.

And only such a man is worthy
of your devotional offering
in a committed intimacy.”

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